Your new boss is younger. Now what?

A younger manager is no longer the exception. Whether you are 41 or 56, it touches on recognition, room to grow and the question of where you stand. This white paper starts with you, then looks at the two of you together and ends with your organisation.

  • What research says about younger managers
  • Six stereotypes tested, on both sides
  • Four feelings you are allowed to have
  • A reflection and a conversation card for the first real conversation
1 in 4employees had a manager who was younger than themselves
5 of the 6persistent stereotypes about older employees do not hold up
almost 20,000workers studied: generations hardly differ in satisfaction and commitment

Sources: Kunze and Menges (2017), Ng and Feldman (2012), Costanza et al. (2012)

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The facts, six tested stereotypes, four feelings and what you can do with them, what helps on both sides, a reflection and a conversation card for the first real conversation.

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Where it grates.

She usually means well, and you often have a point. Whether you are 41 or 56, the friction usually sits in one of these four places:

Tension 1.

Recognition

Does your experience still count, now that someone else sets the direction?

Tension 2.

Room to grow

When is it your turn, and is there still space for your own growth?

Tension 3.

Stereotypes, both ways

Common images of older employees are usually wrong. Low expectations of a young manager do not help either.

Tension 4.

What nobody says out loud

Anger or feeling passed over does not go away when you bury it.

What is in the white paper

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Sound familiar?

The first month, and two HR professionals aged 41 and 56 with the same new director.

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The facts

How often it happens, and what research says about emotions and expectations.

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Stereotypes

Six images of older employees tested, and your image of her.

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What it does to you

Four feelings you are allowed to have, and a reflection with three questions for yourself.

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What helps

What you can both do, five points for your manager and a conversation card.

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Your organisation

Four steps to make age differences a strength.

White paper: Your new boss is 34

  • The facts about younger managers
  • Six stereotypes tested
  • Four feelings and what you can do with them
  • What helps, on both sides
  • A reflection and a conversation card

A look inside the white paper

This is what it looks like

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The facts
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What helps, on both sides
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The first real conversation

From the white paper

Three careers, one table.

In the Netherlands the state pension age is 67, and promotions depend more on skills than on years of service. As a result, more and more experienced professionals get a younger manager. Whether you are 41 or 56, the white paper starts with you.

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Is experience put to use, in every age group?

With Deepler Research you see how employees experience working with their manager, filtered by group such as age and only for groups of six respondents or more. Deepler 360 shows new managers where their self-image and their team’s view of them diverge, including the view of experienced team members.

  • Working with the manager, by age group
  • See whether experience is put to use
  • 360-degree feedback for new managers

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Experience and a fresh perspective need each other.

Download the white paper and turn the age gap into a conversation instead of a silence.

  • Recognise what it does to you, at any age
  • Test the stereotypes, on both sides
  • State expectations, in both directions
  • Prepare for the first real conversation
  • Make age differences a strength in your organisation

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